Another great lesson in life
Forgiveness.
It really is a beautiful thing.
Well,a few weeks ago,something made a stir in my heart. No,it was not something cheesy,in fact, it was hurtful. It was that feeling when you do something good,but some people just ignore it,or too focused on themselves.
I know they were hurt,but they’re just too focused on themselves that they failed to notice that they ignore what I’ve done,and that they hurt me more when they told me that they were hurt that time.
I felt a slight anger,and even considering to stay away from them for a while,to consort my feelings. But then, life’s too short to dwell on bad things like this,right? You’ll never know when will you be separated from the people you know…
So I decide to forgive,even when I never said to them that I was hurt (it was one of my flaws actually, I can’t seem to say what I really feel). Just forgive and move on. Some things are said and done without clear thinking, and some are said and done because of the current emotions. Or maybe I was missing some points they tried to show me but no,it was not only me who was actually hurt by what they’ve done.But I still convince myself that they’re are kind,they were just hurt.Too hurt to notice their surroundings.And until today,I’m still very sure that they’re great people.
But that’s the difference,I forgive and move on. That other person dwell on disappointment and anger. I hope by know, that person already forgive them and move on too.I believe that other person is also kind,and will forgive them eventually.
Then I realize,when you dwell on disappointment and anger,you’ll miss some great and lovely memories to wash that disappointment and anger away.When you are hurt,forgive and create good memories with them.If they are really good people,I’m sure it won’t be too hard to experience new,great memories with them.
They already gave those great memories to me.
They prove me—without thinking of doing it—that they are kind,great people.
And that I won’t ever regret the decision to forgive them. :)
